Bringing shine to the highs, lows and ahas, entrepreneur Claudia Beeny

I have been lucky in my life to have friends and family that are exceptional people. From supportive caregivers to inspirational women, I have been given many examples of strong women who encourage me to dream big. One woman that I consider a friend and an entrepreneurial leader is Claudia Beeny.

I first met Claudia through my husband. My husband and her husband were graduate school classmates and long time friends. Although distance and responsibilities limit the time that we see each other, I have watched as Claudia has transitioned college educator to independent, business woman.

Several years ago, Claudia, with a group of friends, started a website called High Low Aha. The name is based on a daily ritual her family has. Every day the Beeny family must share the high point of the day, the low part of the day and the aha moment that happened. This simple exercises teaches all of us that every day has good, bad and growth potential. A one word answer to how was your day leaves out about 1399 minutes.

The website High Low Aha developed over time to become The House Of Shine. According to the website's introduction, here's what you can find at The House of Shine. "It’s a place to find your daily dose of inspiration. It’s an interactive community where leaders come to grow. And it’s your source for discovering your inner greatness, and sharing it with the world. Come on in. Get inspired. And get moving."

What I enjoy about this website and the ladies involved with it, these women strive to bring out the greatness in others.  Through being present in the moment to realizing the impact of little things, I've learned to be a better parent, strive for more in my business and more fulfilled in my daily life. This community of women seeks to build each other up in each endeavor that they pursue.

An important aspect of their mission is to educate and empower our future women leaders. As a learned educator, Claudia's workshops for college students, she enlightens them with strategies that have helped her succeed in her life path. Without a strong sense of community, your greatness cannot be realized.

I have nominated Claudia and The House of Shine for Yahoo! Shine Women Who Shine.  Please consider voting for Claudia. Please follow this link to vote. To read more about Claudia and other inspiring women, please read their stories at http://inspiringwomen.socialmoms.com/.

Next time you feel overwhelmed by the business of life, take a moment to see the shine in your day. Head over to the House of Shine and share your great moments with a community of women.

 


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Being an advocate for my child is a balance between soft and strong

Being a mom has come with many challenges. When my kids were babies, I didn't imagine the questions, decisions, and obstacles that I would face. Of course, the tender, endearing moments outweigh the heavy ones. Still the challenges leave me up at night wondering if I acted to softly or too strongly. Only time will tell.

As my kids get more involved in school and sports, I have found that I need to be their advocate. Yes, I said advocate, not cheerleader, supporter or hand-holder. I really mean advocate. In my mind, being my child's advocate is the person who is my child's voice when they can't be heard. Of course, I am their supporter too, but I want to be more proactive in their activities.

Being the advocate, it is imperative to find a balance between being soft and strong. If you are too adamant to a coach or teacher, your child's voice may echo into no man's land. While being too soft, your child may be trampled by louder participants. Over time, I've dealt with both scenarios.

Last year at my son's swim meet, I watched as another participant continually hit, pushed and acted inappropriately toward my son. At first, I took a soft approach. I spoke to my son and said stay away from this kid. Unfortunately, the problem child was regularly lined up with my son.

After a time, I spoke with the hosting team's advisor and asked for more supervision over the swimmers in line. I did not point out the trouble maker nor my son. I simply asked for a supervisor to more closely monitor the line-ups.

When I saw my child get hit, I lost it. There was no more soft. There was only strong (and quite loud). I broke all the swimming rules and ran out to the deck and got the head coach involved. Since she knew me well her shocked expression knew that there was a problem. I advised her of the incidents and said that I wasn't moving till that child was removed. In a few minutes, the child was taken off the deck and there were no further problems.

Could I have handled the situation differently? Quite possibly. Did my actions cause the effect that I wanted? Yes. Was the outcome because I was a strong adovacte for my child? Most definitely.

I look at this situation as an understanding on how to handle my children's situations. If I had continually brought every problem to the coach, would she have understood the seriousness of the situation? Probably not. Could my child have suffered if I didn't speak strongly enough? Possibly. Would I act exactly the same if the situation occurred today? I don't know.

In the end, it is a difficult balance to determine when to act softly and when to act strongly. Everyone has their own opinions on this issue. Understanding how and why people act can be helpful to guide your own actions.

The debate over comfort and softness versus strength and durability runs throughout everyone's lives. Sometimes the most basic needs, like toilet paper can spark a huge debate. Join in the soft vs strong debate on the Charmin Facebook page. There are lots of prizes up for grabs for participants.

No matter what you believe, share your voice today. Vote on the Charmin Facebook page and help determine the soft vs strong debate today.


Disclosure: I was compensated for this blog post as part of the SocialMoms and Charmin blogging program. The opinions and ideas expressed here are my own. For more blog posts on this topic, click here.

Vacation Day equals messy day, we're ready for the Clorox Ultimate Mess Party

When the kids have a day off from school, do you panic, break into a sweat or hope that there's a day camp still open? Think about it. It's a change to the routine and kids can be demanding. Even scarier, kids can make HUGE messes. Part of the fun of the kids having a vacation day is doing something fun and different.

So what if there is a mess or a disaster, these little moments can create some of the best memories of time spent with the kids. During our last vacation day, we kicked off our day making breakfast. My kids love cooking with me but it can take a lot of patience. Of course, there are egg shells in the scrambled eggs and orange juice on the floor, but they have big smiles and have enjoyed every minute of the adventure.

We continued our cooking theme to something new, cake pops. We all have seen the books or the cute pictures. Cake pops look, and taste, very yummy. Plus, what kid doesn't love food on a stick. So being a brave mom,I told the kids that we would make red velvet cake pops. I'm not sure what I was thinking, but we forged ahead. You know if you've ever made red velvet anything, the red coloring can get everywhere. Of course, the kids loved that their hands were bright red, but my counters and towels looked like a crime scene. Luckily some pastry bags and a cake pop maker pan cut down on some of the spillage. By the end of the first round, my kitchen, towels and kids were a lovely shade of red/pink.

On to stage 2, the icing/decorating of the cake pops. Between the dipping, covering, and sprinkles, the baking fairies had exploded all over my kitchen. Who knew that you could get sprinkles in the toaster? How did that happen? But, in the end, the kids were so proud of their creations. We wrapped them in bags and shared them with friends and neighbors. Even better, the kids thought their cake pops were better than anything we could have bought. It was a fun day and they still ask when we can do it again. A movie day wouldn't have brought as much laughter and memories as the chaotic day of making cake pops with my kids.

Clorox understands that some of the best family memories can be messy ones. Right now Clorox is hosting the Ultimate Mess Party contest. This contest, part of the Clorox® Clean-Up® Recipes For Fun site, is a fun way for families to share their crazy, messy adventures to win some great prizes.

The Clorox® Clean-Up® Recipes For Fun site, cloroxrecipesforfun.com, offers lots of messy, creative ideas to do with your family. Whether you have little cooks like me or future scientists, this website offers lots of ideas and recipes to kick start your messy day.

Do you have a great kid friendly recipe or a fun science based activity for kids? Enter your idea in the Ultimate Mess Contest. Just for entering, you will receive coupon for $1.00 off Clorox® Clean-Up. Also, you can win by viewing all the submissions. Visit the contest for the opportunity to win FREE Clorox® Clean-Up® coupons and $100 gift cards, which will be awarded randomly.

Don't be afraid of the mess any more. Messes can make family memories that last a lifetime.


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Developing my kids' inner chef through healthy eating

I like good food. Some people may call me a foodie. I read magazines like Food and Wine, Food Network and even Savuer. I can tell you the difference between couscous and quinoa.

But, if my kids only wanted to eat macaroni and chicken nuggets, who cares if I can make a frittata. Since I want my kids to enjoy food, I came to the conclusion that they will have to be in the kitchen with me to develop a love of healthy, good eating.

At first, our time in the kitchen was chaos. Of course we started easy with some cookies and pancakes. Still there was flour on the floor and egg shells in the batter. Over time and with practice, the kids got better and I was more appreciative of their help.

To show the kids how their simple tasks are the basis for more complex meals, I turned to the Food Network. During some downtime, the kids and I would watch a variety of shows from Guy's Big Bite to Iron Chef, these cooking related shows made food and cooking exciting.

In our house, my youngest son is obsessed with Iron Chef and I'm extremely happy about it. This show creates a detailed discussion in our house and has sparked some yummy dinners too.  For those not familiar, the "battle" is based on a secret ingredient. The ingredient could be something familiar like mint or something exotic like?  We talk about how the secret ingredient can be used in various dishes. We even have tried making some dinners with the ingredients (more common choices like scallops or beets, nothing too crazy).

The biggest thing about watching all these shows and having food discussions is that my children are knowledge about food. Knowing the difference between healthy, fresh ingredients and over-processed items is key to developing healthy eating habits.

I'm happy to say that my son will ask for a spinach salad with his lunch at school. He doesn't say yuck or eww. He enjoys it and knows that the spinach will help him stay strong for all his sports activities (just like Popeye, right).

Since our family is a proponent of healthy eating and trying new recipes, we are very excited about the Uncle Ben's Beginners Cooking Contest. This contest will offer a prize of $20,000 to the winner and a cafeteria makeover for their school.  There's even a prize of an appearance on the Rachel Ray Show (my kids would be over the moon to meet Rachel Ray).

So how do you enter the Uncle Ben's Beginners Cooking Contest?  Visit the Uncle's Ben's Facebook page to upload a 2-3 minute video showing you and your children making a rice based dish that inspires healthy eating. Think about the possibilities. From side-dishes with lots of veggies and brown rice to a main dish with proteins and spices, my cooking juices are following. For complete details and how to enter, please visit the Uncle Ben's Facebook page.


We are excited to continue our healthy eating journey. Don't get me wrong, my kids aren't eating everything. Butternut Squash isn't a favorite and they prefer white rice to brown. It's a work in progress. If I have taught them anything, I hope that they have discovered an appreciation for all types of food. After three separate tries, you can say you don't prefer a certain food, but at least they have experienced it. Now if I could only get my husband to like broccoli.


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Weight Watchers Smart Ones Satisfying Selections, a filling low calorie meal, review

I am always watching what I eat. I try not to over-eat or eat poorly. Of course, I have days when I splurge, but most of the time I try to eat smaller portions, lots of vegetables and overall healthy meals. So in order to allow those splurge days, I often turn to Weight Watchers prepared meals to keep my diet under control. 

Recently, Weight Watchers has introduced Weight Watchers® Smart Ones® Satisfying Selections. These meals in a bag have 30 percent bigger portions than a traditional tray meal. Also, each meal has heartier pieces of meat and veggies. Most importantly, with all this extra food, the meals are less than 400 calories, has between 8-10 Weight Watchers PointsPlus and 25 grams or more of protein. 

Personally, I like the convenience of a prepackaged frozen meal. My biggest conflict with these meals has been the size. While these meals tend to be ideal for lunch, these options for dinner often left me wanting more food. 

This weekend I tried the Chicken with Broccoli and Cheese Weight Watchers Smart Ones Satisfying Selections for dinner. I was on my own for dinner and I wanted something quick and easy to fix. I was very impressed with the amount of food in a single meal. My meal filled the entire bowl. When I finished, I was full and definitely didn't want any more food.

What I liked about the Chicken with Broccoli and Cheese meal is the amount of vegetables in the dish. The broccoli pieces were plentiful and flavorful. Also, the chicken was well seasoned. Even better, the pieces were  large. I definitely didn't have to play "where's the chicken." 

The Weight Watchers Smart Ones Satisfying Selections can be cooked in the microwave or on the stove top. There are five (5) flavors: Chicken with Broccoli and Cheese, Chicken & Broccoli Aflredo, Chicken Teriyaki Stir Fry, Sesame Chicken and Ziti with Meatballs and Cheese. The meals retail for around $3.50 a package. 

Right now, you can get a $1 off coupon to try these new meals from the Smart Ones website. For a store selling the Weight Watchers Smart Ones Satisfying Selections, please visit http://www.eatyourbest.com/storelocate.aspx.  

I'm stocking my freezer with lots of Weight Watchers Smart Ones for those busy weeknight dinners. Which one will you try?   

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Too much clutter, 10 thoughts to simplify your household

Moms know that clutter can create havoc in a household. Too much stuff can make everything seem chaotic, overbearing and just a hassle. So, trying to remove all the extra stuff from our daily lives can help to make things a little easier.

Decluttering a house can be a huge chore. But if you break the process into several small steps, a lot can be accomplished. Maybe focus on one or two ideas every week. But the end of a month, you might see a huge improvement.

Here are 10 ideas to help you de-clutter your home

1. Give away an old toy when a new toy comes into your house
We all been there. Tons of toys in the house and then your child has a birthday party. Of course, there are lots of new presents for his birthday. One great idea is to have your child give an old toy to charity before they can play with one of their birthday toys. It's a simple way to keep the amount of toys in your house manageable.

2. Use lots of storage
No one wants toys, clothes, or anything just thrown around your house. Make sure that you have plenty of storage to put items away. Whether it's fancy or simple plastic tubs, keeping items in a controlled area can reduce the chaos.

3. Separate toys by function. Puzzles in one container, legos in another etc
Do you kids ever say - Mom I can find the Hot Wheels!  When all the toys are thrown in one giant bin, some toys can get lost to the bottom of the container. Why not use several different size containers to separate out all the different toys. With all the bins labeled with the contents, kids will be able to find their favorite toys easily.

4. Every night before bed all toys need to put into their home/container
Everyone knows the clean-up song. It's a staple in preschool classes. Why not use the same concept at home when the day comes to an end. Make sure that everyone helps to put all the toys away. No one wants to wake up in the morning and find a floor full of toys. A fun game of clean-up can become part of a nightly routine.

5 Keep outside outside not in the house
No mom wants to find a dirty soccer ball in her kitchen. Create an area in the garage or patio to keep all the outside toys. By keeping them out of the house, you will reduce the amount of extra stuff around. Plus, the kids won't be tempted to play ball near your dining room china.

6. Use file folders for important documents.
Do you have a filing system for documents?  How many times do you have to search for the field trip form or teacher form?  Keep a filing system with separate folders for all those important documents. These folders will allow you to quickly go through items that are needed for the week.

7. Put mail away. Don't let it pile up on the counter
Of course, this item is easier said that done. But if you sort your mail when it comes into your house, it will be less likely to pile up on the counter. We get a lot of junk mail. If I sort it as I come into the house, I can throw a lot of it away. Now there is less clutter on the counter and I won't misplace bills and other important mail items.

8. Keep a centralized calendar for all family related activities
If you have kids in lots of activities, a centralized family calendar is imperative. Don't keep all the pieces of paper with performances, school meetings, football games. Log each item into the calender and throw away the paper. Whether you use a mom wall calendar or an online version, make it accessible to everyone in the family. Now everyone will know where and when there is an activity.

9 Keep a storage bin by the closet for clothes the kids have out grown
How many times have the kids put on a pair of jeans and they have been too short?  I keep a container right by the closet and through the jeans into it. When the bin is full, I call a charitable organization to donate the items. You closet becomes less full and you don't have to search for clothes that fit on busy school mornings.

10. Use a shoe organizer.
One of my biggest pet peeves is shoes all over my kids' rooms. We have purchased a shoe rack for the boys' shoes. Every time they take off their shoes, it goes on the rack and not the floor. There are several type of shoe organizers available. Maybe one will work in your house to keep all those shoes organized and off the floor.

While these are my thoughts about streamlining my household, they may not work for you. One thing to remember is that in the end, don't sweat the small stuff. Playing with your kids and enjoying family time is so important. I would rather have a little mess in my house and happy kids.

What about you and your family?  Do you have any tips for de-cluttering your house?  Have you given up on a house perfect home until the kids get older?  Why not share your thoughts in the comments section.


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September 24 is worldwide play day - lets get dirty

As a mom of two little boys, we are constantly outside playing. Whether it is riding bikes, playing soccer or just running around playing tag, being outside is a constant in our family. But there are many families that need a challenge to get them up and moving. Clorox 2 is encouraging families to get up and go outside to play.

This Saturday, September 24 is Worldwide Play Day. Nickeldodeon created this national holiday eight years ago to encourage families to get up and get moving (and get away from the television).  This year Clorox 2 is encouraging families to take the pledge, http://clorox2play2day.com,  to get active this weekend.


As for our family, this Saturday will be a very active day. Starting with a soccer game, then football, followed by our annual Mattoberfest party.

Mattoberfest is a family and friend party for about 100 people. We are all outside playing games and enjoying each others company. The kids will create games, play tag, use the swing sets and basically get themselves exhausted with hours of play. Of course, they get really dirty too. But nothing that a little Clorox 2 can't get out.

It always amazes me that kids of all ages can play together and not have conflict when they are outside. If these children were inside with televisions, video games or other electronic devices, there would be complaining, crying and whining. Being out in the fresh air and moving around seems to dissolve the conflict.

Don't worry the adults are just sitting around eating and drinking. During the party the adults have a cornhole tournament. What's cornhole?  Some people refer to it as bags. Basically you try to get the bag into a hole. It is simple, but the adults are up and moving. No sitting for these guys.


Overall, the day is a wonderful celebration of family, friends and fun. We have had this tradition for seven years and it is one that we will continue as long as we can.

The sad part is that as Mattoberfest ends, the cooler weather hits our area. We have to be more creative and diligent about getting the kids away from the television and up and moving. Luckily with sports and good friends, we have found other indoor activities that keep us all going through the long winter months.

Well, our family will be out and active this Saturday, September 24?  What will your family do?  Share your thoughts in the comments section.


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The solution for the squirmy baby during diaper changes with Little Movers Huggies Slip-On Diapers

I remember diaper changes and the struggle it was to get my boys out of a dirty diaper and into a clean one without making a huge mess. It was a good day when I didn't have to change me, the baby or the changing table more than once a day. No new mom wants to do that much laundry.

Babies, especially baby boys, don't like to lay still for diaper changes. Luckily Huggies has developed a solution to the squirmy baby, Little Movers Huggies Slip-on Diapers.

Huggies Slip-on diapers don't require you undo straps/tabs to take them on and off. These diapers have stretchy sides. Basically you slide them on and off like underwear. These diapers have the same great absorbency and Leak Lock System that you expect from Huggies.

My youngest son was the worst to have his diaper changed. He wanted to explore, he wanted to learn, but he didn't want to sit still. Of course, seeing his older brother playing and having fun only added to his desire to get up and move. While we didn't have a nickname for him, the diaper changes quickly became bargaining chip in the house. The conversation would go like this - if you change the baby, I'll do the dishes. The Slip-on diapers would have been helpful in our house.

Also, I think that these diapers would be great while traveling. How many times have you been without a changing table or with a changing table where you wouldn't want your child's bottom to touch? If you have ever tried to change a baby on an airplane you know it can be a frustrating experience. Since my husband is tall, I always drew the short stick on airplane diaper changing. I prayed, crossed my fingers, and basically did just about anything to keep faith that I wouldn't have to change a diaper on the airplane. I could have used these slip-on diapers.

The ability to slip on and slip off a diaper could help traveling parents everywhere. Just think about your traveling diaper changing stories. Don't you think that these type of diapers would have been helpful?  With squirmy babies in a traveling situation, I would have given anything for a good solution. Now there is one.

So if you have a little squirmy guy or girl at home, why not try some Little Movers Huggies Slip-on Diapers today.


Disclosure: I wrote this blog post while participating in the SocialMoms and Huggies blogging program, for a gift card worth $35. For more information on how you can participate, click here.

Back to school health tips and more, are you kids ready

This year my boys are going back to school early. With about 1 week till the first day of school, we are in the countdown mode. With the school supplies purchased and the special first day of school outfit chosen, it is time to focus on the other aspects of school, staying healthy. Keeping my boys healthy and safe during their time in school is paramount. That's why I try to instill some of these ideas in my boys.

Here are 10 thoughts on staying healthy during the school year.

1. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables. We all know how important good nutrition is for kids (and parents). So send your kids to school with a lunch full of fruit and vegetables. Also, if your child brings a snack why not bring freeze dried fruit, like Crunchy N Yummy. It's easy and provides a serving of fruit in each package.

2. Don't squint, see the eye doctor. Our sight is so important and should be protected. While our boys are required to have annual eye exams, some schools don't require the exams. If you can't see the computer or board, go get your eyes checked. Glasses are cool and being able to see all your school work is key to success in your classes.

3. Be active. If you have recess at your school or PE, get up and move. Being active is a great way to keep your energy levels high for all your school work. Plus, getting your heart pumping is the best way keep yourself healthy throughout the year.

4. Sneeze into your elbow. No one wants to share a cold and miss school. If you sneeze, make sure to sneeze into your elbow. This action is a simple way not to share a cold with your friends.

5. Drink water. It may be tempting to have soda or juice with lunch, but water is a great choice for kids. Staying hydrated keeps your energy levels high and keeps your body working at its optimum levels.

6. Have a specific bedtime. After a summer of fun, going to be bed early can be boring (My boys already dread the 8:30 strike of the clock). But, having enough rest is important to keeping yourself ready to learn all the new and exciting subjects in your classes.

7. Don't come to school sick. We've covered sneeze into your elbow, but don't go to school if you are sick. I know that it can be tempting to attend that special event, but if you are sick, please stay home. Don't get your teacher, friend, or friends' family sick with your germs.

8. Use your manners. You wouldn't like it if a friend didn't talk to your or said something mean. Think about these thoughts when you are talking to your teachers or parent volunteers. Saying please and thank you goes a long way to showing respect to your authority figures.

9. Respect the bus. Do your know the rules on the bus?  Learn the rules and respect the bus driver when she picks you up in the morning and drops your home in the afternoon. The bus driver is in charge of safely transporting to and from school, follow the rules.

10. Help your parents. doing back to school is stressful on parents too. My youngest is heading to kindergarten. Everyone knows that its a big day for him and me. So be nice to mom and dad going back to school Don't make them run around searching for your backpack, lunch box or school folder. Take responsibility for your items. It's a great way to show kids' responsibility and it makes life easier for busy parents.

Do you have a great back to school tip? What's your family's routine for back to school? How do you stay healthy going back to school?  Share your tips and ideas in the comments section.

Let's all have a great school year.


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Back to school shopping, kids finding their style

Back to school shopping can be a fun and trying time. As a mom, I like to be practical on the clothes and supplies that I buy my boys. But, the boys are getting older and they now like to express their opinions on what should and should not be in their closets. So what is a mom to do? Compromise of course.

In our house, we try to find a happy medium when it comes to back to school clothes shopping. I like the boys to wear collared shirts and khakis. So, during our shopping trips, I try to get at least one or two of these outfits that are a little nicer for first days of school or special occasions.

But, I want to make sure that the boys will wear the outfits so I give them a choice of shirt or pants color. By letting the boys have a little choice in the process, I have found that they will wear those outfits more often. It's a win-win situation for everyone.

One big item for back to school shopping is the outfit for the first day of school. In this scenario, I let the boys choose two outfits. From these two outfits (unless one is a bathing suit- my kids are swimmers and live in bathing suits), I pick the one that I like better (or more appropriate). Yet again everyone is happy and the kids are developing their sense of style. 

As the boys have gotten older, their sense of style is emerging. My oldest son likes to dress similar to his father. If he sees his dad in a golf shirt going to work in the morning, he will want to wear a golf shirt too. Also, I've noticed that he has a favorite color, green. If he could have a closet full of green shirts, the boy would be ecstatic. 

My younger son is still developing his style. While I know his favorite color, red, his clothes choices run the gamut. From Packer jerseys (he must wear 2- one for each of his favorite players) to button down shirts, every day is a new discovery. I think that now that he is starting school, we will see a pattern emerge, similar to his older brother.

Since I only have a house full of boys, I think that I have it lucky with back to school shopping. There are only so many options for jeans, pants, shirts and shoes. If I had little girls, I think that this whole process would be more difficult (and possibly expensive). From what my friends tell me, my back to school shopping is easy.

What do you think about back to school shopping?  Do you have a child who must wear the latest trend or will only wear Batman t-shirts. Share a story or two. Maybe your experience can help another mom as she starts her back to school shopping.


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Seattle's Best Coffee helps you become more efficient

We all know that moms are busy. Sometimes a few thoughts to help with our busy lifestyles can be helpful.

Seattle's Best Coffee knows that a grab and go coffee is just what can make the day start right. The new grab and go cans are a great way to get the off to a quick start. Be sure to check out the the Official Latte of Pretty Much Everything. Plus they are offering a $1.50 off coupon too.

Here are 10 thoughts to help your busy schedule more efficient.

1. Keep the fridge stocked with water bottles. We have tons of reusable water bottles. I keep multiple bottles in the garage refrigerator to grab on the way to a tball game, trip to the gym or just the impromptu play-date

2. Keep loyalty cards in your car. How often do you need to stop at the store and you've forgotten the store's loyalty card. I keep all my store cards in my car's console so I can easily grab it going into the store.

3. Keep an organized calendar. Whether you are an iPhone addict or a traditional paper calendar, staying organized is the easiest way to stay on top of your daily routine.

4. Make your kids responsible. How many times do you head out the door late because the kids can't find their shoes, homework or baseball glove. Make your kids get their stuff ready beforehand. It gives you a few extra minutes and teaches your kids responsibility.

5. Pre-plan some meals. While planning a whole week's meals may be ambitious, a few ideas for a few nights can keep you away from the drive-thru.

6. Don't over schedule yourself. I'm learning an important lesson this summer. Don't over schedule yourself. It's good to have lots of activities but sometimes a day of nothing can help recharge everyone.

7. Keep your car stocked books. How many times have you sat in a carpool line bored to tears. Keep a magazine that you have wanted to read or the latest book club selection for those down moments. Also throw a couple o kids books too. Extra reading is always a good thing.

8. Make appointments at the end of the current appointment. How often do you forget to make the kids doctors appointments? Why not schedule their next appointment when you are leaving the current appointment. Planning ahead can help make your schedule less chaotic.

9. It's ok to accept help. Its great to be super mom, but sometimes it's ok to get help from friends. Why not carpool to school activities or sports games. It's a win win for everyone.

10. Be easy on yourself. No matter how busy or full your schedule, the only thing that matters is that your is healthy and happy. Nothing else matters.

So whether you are great at the grab and go or could use a little more practice, it will all fall into place in the end.



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Virginia Beach, Live the Life this summer

When I think of Virginia, my mind usually jumps to the historical landmarks and monuments that are close to Washington DC. From Mount Vernon to Monticello, these American landmarks make me think of Virginia. But there is more to this historic state, there is Virginia Beach.

Virginia Beach has a slogan, Live the Life. This sandy, warm oasis offers numerous options for everyone to enjoy their time in Virginia Beach. Here is a list of 10 reasons to visit Virginia Beach this summer.

1. Tons of FREE activities: From the gorgeous beaches to parks and wildlife, Virginia Beach has lots of free (and almost) free activities for the family. With all of our family budgets stretched, cost-effective activities on vacation can really help keep the spending in check.

2. Beach Street U.S.A.: Along Atlantic Avenue, performers will entertain you with music, juggling and much more. No matter what night that choose, you won't be disappointed with the entertainment on display.

3.Military Aviation Museum :  My boys love airplanes and a trip to a museum with lots of airplanes is a must on our list. Located at the Virginia Beach Airport, the Military Aviation Museum is home to the largest private collections of World War II and Korean War era fighters, bombers, trainers and seaplanes. Admission to the museum $10 for adults, $5 for students, and seniors and active duty military is $9.

4.  Virginia Beach Amusement Park   My kids are starting to enjoy amusement park rides. The Virginia Beach Amusement Park offers the Skyscraper. There are only seven of these extreme thrill rides in the world. Admission to the park is free, but ride tickets 70 cents to $1 and rides require four to six tickets.

5. Virginia Legends Walk   A visit to Virginia wouldn't be complete without a little history lesson.  This museum details the contributions of Virginians including Edgar Allen Poe, Arthur Ashe, Ella Fitzgerald, Patsy Cline, Thomas Jefferson and Captain John Smith. The walk is free.

6. Parasailing:  Who wouldn't want to fly through the air?  Virginia Beach offers parasailing off the coastline. While soaring above, you can see schools of fish and possibly some dolphins. Get your wings and soar.

7. Capt. Jack's Pirate Adventures: What's a pirates favorite letter? ARGGGH! My kids love pirates and this cruise would be tops on their lists of fun activities. Join the pirate adventure on the Spanish galleon ship for an adventure on the high seas.

8. Golfing: Of course, we can't forget about dad on our trips. Virginia Beach offers over 198 holes of golf. With both public and private courses, everyone can hit the links while on vacation.

9. Dining:  While I'm on vacation, I like to explore local cuisine. In Virginia Beach, I can expand my palate with experimental dining or stick to traditional seafood samplings. No matter your favorite cuisine, Virginia Beach has your taste buds covered.

10. Shopping: Of course, when you are on vacation, you need a souvenir to relive your memories. Virginia Beach offers classic and modern shopping venues. From the Lynnhaven Mall, one of the largest on the East coast, or town center of Virginia Beach, your family will find the perfect memento for your trip.

If you are looking for a last minute family vacation before the kids head back to school, why not consider Virginia Beach. From sand and sea, to shopping and sports, Virginia Beach offers it all.




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5 close by summer getaways every kid should experience

Summer vacation is quickly approaching. While I have the best intentions, I have yet to plan a family vacation or getaway this year. Blame my procrastination on being busy, overwhelmed or a variety of excuses, the extravagant vacation has not been planned.

But, why does a summer vacation have to be some over-indulgent, over-priced adventure.  There are many inexpensive, fun activities that are close to home. Since our family is close to a major metropolitan city (Chicago), I've though of 5 great summer getaways that are close to home, don't require a ton of planning, and won't break the bank.

Here are my five suggestions for summer getaways that every kid should experience.

1. Visit a museum: In the Chicago area, we are fortunate to have numerous, world-class museums. From the Art Institute to the Field Museum or the Adler Planetarium to the Shedd Aquarium, there are options for every kid's favorite genre. For the dinosaur lovers, the Field Museum's Sue is a definite must see. This summer the Field Museum has an exhibit on giant whales. The enormity of these creatures will make your jaw drop. Also, the Shedd Aquarium has an exhibit on jelly fish (Jellies). I could stare at the colors and simplicity of these creatures all day.

2. Visit a firehouse:  Do you remember as a child how in awe you were of firemen?  To my boys, firemen are the ultimate heroes. They save the day. In our area, many firehouses will give free tours to young children. Our preschool classes have taken tours of local firehouses. The kids got to see the fire truck, all the gear and experience a fire drill. It made my kids smile and it didn't cost a dime.

3. Take the kids to a sporting event:  I know what you are thinking, a sporting event do you know how much that costs?  While professional sporting events can be expensive (trust me, buying Chicago Cubs tickets for a 5 year old is a little much), look to see if there are minor league teams in your area. In the Chicago area, the Kane County Cougars is a perfect outing for families. For under $50 for a family of 4, you can get reserved seats to a professional baseball game. If you want to sit on the lawn, tickets are even less. Plus, the kids get to run the bases after the game. A little leaguer's dream to run around a real baseball diamond.

4. Visit a national park. Of course, when I say national park, many people's minds go to the Yosemite or the Grand Canyon. But there are many national parks close to home. For example, in Indiana, the Indiana dunes are a great day trip. The dunes are close to Lake Michigan. It's a fun way to explore nature and get outside as a family.

5. Spend a day volunteering at a charity. What better way to teach your children a valuable characteristic than to give their time to a worthy cause. While my kids know how to give toys and money to a charity, a day at a local food pantry, animal shelter or other charitable organization can bring the idea of charity home. Of course, any family should check with each organization to inquire about any age limitations.

These are just a few thoughts about some possible summer getaways for your family. Whether you planning to go far away or are staying close to home, summer is a time to spend some quality time together.

What are you plans for summer?  Let me know your thoughts and we can expand our list.


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Find the family favorite pasta dishes at Carrabas

What type of a meal brings your family around the table?  Does the meal reflect the spirited personalities of the various generations?  Does the patriarch or matriarch of the family persuade everyone to his/her personal favorites? What if you could have assistance finding a great menu item that fits your or your family's personality? Carrabas has you covered.

Right now on the Carrabas Facebook page, you or a family member can take the Carrabba’s Personality Quiz on Facebook   . This quiz will help determine your pasta personality. The quiz asks you questions about your lifestyle. For example, what type of day do you enjoy, how do you act at a party, and even a color preference.

I took this quiz and I totally agreed with the determination. See, I'm more of a traditionalist. I like to make sure that everyone is having fun, but doesn't get too out of control. You probably won't see having purple hair and dancing on the table.

The Carrabba's Personality Quiz said that my past personality is Carrabba’s Spaghetti and Meatballs.  Apparently, I'm warm and comforting, just like a plate of spaghetti and meatballs.

What's funny about findings of this personality quiz, is that we don't eat a lot of Spaghetti and Meatballs. When I serve pasta, I try to add extra veggies (a great way to hide them from the kids, and maybe my husband). A go to pasta dish for us is penne with grilled chicken and veggies. It seems to satisfy everyone.

Now with summer approaching, we will be on the go more and that means more dinners out. Luckily, Carrabas has seven signature dishes that are under $10. Each of these dishes are served with your choice of a house salad or soup.

One limited time featured pasta meal is the Pasta Rambo. This dish consists of shrimp tossed with imported Italian linguine, spinach, mushrooms, and tomatoes sautéed in our basil lemon butter sauce. This entree sounds pretty good to me, especially considering the cost. When you're feeding a family of four, a $10 restaurant meal is a good deal.

Of course, occasionally a splurge dessert is a great way to end dinner. Back this summer is Carrabas Limoncello Bread pudding. This dish is described as "brioche bread pudding made with fresh Madagascar vanilla beans and a rich custard, served hot out of the oven. Topped with Blue Bell vanilla ice cream and drizzled with Carrabba’s homemade Caravella Limoncello liqueur sauce."  I think that this dessert would convince me to spend a few extra hours at the gym. 


Do you think that Carraba's fits your family's pasta personality?  Whether your traditional or adventurous, the signature Carrabas dishes will match your pasta personality. Be sure to check out the Carrabba’s Personality Quiz on Facebook to see what dishes might make your mouth water.    

For a Carrabas location near you, please see www.carrabbas.com.


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Making a little switch to bring a bigger change

Life is about choices. That statement may seem cliche, I know. It's like those inspirational posters or words of wisdom from a fortune cookie. Still the sentiment applies. Life is about choices.

Recently, I was asked to participate in a writing prompt about making little switches. I was asked to look at my daily decisions to see where I could make a little switch. Hopefully the little switch would make a difference.

Of course, my mind went all over the place. From the adding more vegetables to the kids meals to not getting as angry when the toys are still on the floor, numerous ideas popped into my head. But in the end, I thought that a meaningful gesture would have a bigger impact than a simple action.

My little switch for our family will be to turn off the television during breakfast. Usually our morning routine involves the Today Show and Cheerios. Recently, I found that the kids become wrapped up with the stories and weather that we start to run behind. Of course, I want to know if its going to be cold or rainy, but the distraction that the television causes sets the day off on the wrong track. My frustration and the kids impatience makes the day become chaotic and it's only 8 am.

By turning off the television, the kids and I can talk about what is going to happen that day. From swim practice or tae kwon do, we are a busy family. It is important for the kids to understand the schedule of the day. And, the morning is a great time to reinforce school concepts from the night before. Or, make sure that the school library books are in the back pack.

Now that are mornings are a little more about us, it seems that there is less loudness in our house. Kids get dressed without issue, bags are ready and we go out the door on time. All of these factors make the rest of the day seem to go very smoothly. By the end of the day, I'm definitely less frazzled.

So, my little switch, turning off the television, is making a difference to my family's routine and demeanor. What little switch can your family make? Maybe some moms could use a little more me time or maybe you could use a little romantic spark from your partner. Whatever your little switch might be, take the challenge. The difference just might surprise you.



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Easter memories, now and then

Growing up Easter meant many things. From getting a new dress to the basket of candy from the Easter bunny, that glorious spring morning was full of joy. Sometimes Easter was doubly special because it would fall on my father's birthday. In addition to the jelly beans and peeps there would be birthday cake after our ham brunch. My childhood Easter memories were always fill with joy. I can only hope to pass those memories on to my children.

Now, as a mom, Easter has different meaning for me.

Through my children, I see the joy of find the hidden eggs throughout the house and the giggles from too much Easter candy snacking throughout the day.

Our Easter morning starts with an egg hunt throughout the house. Instead of loading the eggs with candy, our Easter bunny hides eggs that have some coins hidden inside. After all the eggs are found, we empty loot into our Easter baskets. From pennies to quarters, and the occasional dollar, the boys carefully count and put in their piggy banks all their loot.

Also, the boys enjoy visiting with family and friends. Sometimes we host an Easter brunch for neighbors and friends. Other years, we travel to see family. In both situations, the gratitude of sharing a meal with loved ones heightens the occasion. Even when the mash potatoes are lumpy or the ham is dry, the food isn’t the star; rather, the love and laughter in the house is brilliant part of the day.

Even through all these wonderful new celebrations, for me, the Easter day brings great joy and part sadness.  Ten years ago my father expectantly passed away from cancer, shortly after his Easter birthday. Many of my memories of my father are tied to Easter. So, during this holiday, I try to incorporate something that would have made my father smile. These little touches are usually just for me. From a small piece of candy hidden in my kids’ Easter baskets to a mimosa in the morning for me, a little moment to remember my father will put a smile on my face for the day.

As each year passes, I hope that my Easter celebration choices are creating lasting memories for my boys. It might be a favorite Easter candy or the excitement of finding a quarter in a plastic egg. No matter what my children take away from these moments, it will form a part of the strong men that I look forward to them becoming.


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